Friday, December 2, 2011

Growth in Prenups

Summary:

The article I found was based off of the popularity of prenuptial agreements. In the article it discussed the goals of marital agreements, the ways nuptial agreements and marital charters are similar, marital charters, and differences between marital charters and nuptial agreements. The article also talked of different examples of how marital charters can be beneficial and how to prepare one. This article attributed that some of the goals of people searching for a marital agreement is that children from a new marriage do not acquire something that is not rightfully his/hers. Also along with this idea is the idea of “gold-digger”. Since second marriages are so popular, this idea of protecting what is rightfully yours has been growing and now more and more people are considering and obtaining nuptial agreements, whether they be pre- or post-nuptial. When discussing how to obtain one some of the different ways that this article mentions is for each person to hire separate counsel and rely on him or her for advice, or the parties can agree to have one attorney to draft their agreement. Considering a premarital agreement also became popular because it is viewed as a tool to help people become aware of all of the complex interpersonal, financial, business and legal challenges awaiting them and provide a safe, structured process for negotiating their interests. It is also said to help them feel more confident about their relationship and what they need from one another and even what they want from one another. In the section of this article where the similarities between marital charters and nuptial agreements are discussed, the subjects that are common to both types of agreements include, financial aspects of the relationship, roles and responsibilities of the parties, the relationship between the parties, relationships with others, how to handle unexpected situation, and the planning for the end of the relationships. However, nuptial agreements are usually focused on how the property is divided upon the dissolution of the relationship, whereas the marital charter deals with how to handle potential problems especially how parties will work together to ensure the success of their relationship and their assets, and appreciate the dependence of the financial and business success on the success of the relationship. When the differences were discussed in this article, one of the key points brought up was that nuptial agreements attempt to avoid future conflict by protecting someone’s financial resources whereas marital charters achieve the purpose by helping the parties achieve long-term clarity and stability in their relationship by reaching mutual understandings and agreements. The one important thing that this article finishes off with is explaining how marital charters pave the way for developing nuptial agreements and how this also is helping the popularity of the nuptial agreement to get stronger.

What was interesting/what did I learn:

I found it interesting how the simple fact of there being a marital charter which is different from a nuptial agreement to be the most interesting about this topic. It is not surprising that the rate of prenuptial agreements is rising. Although it is rising I was also interested in the idea that the negative perceptions of a prenuptial agreements are not a necessary factor. Most people who enter with a prenuptial agreement only do it because they want to protect their interests.

Question:

Do you think premarital agreements will be the death of our society because it makes divorce a more viable option?

2 comments:

  1. I don't think they will necessarily be the what causes marriages to fail. I think even before premarital agreements were becoming more popular, divorce rates were probably increasing. So, I think that the blame really can't be put specifically here, but it probably just has more to do with divorce being more common in general because people are more likely to do something if they have seen other people do it too.

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  2. No I don't think premarital agreements will be the death of our society and no I don't think they make divorce a more viable option. One reason is because in the middle of your summary you say how agreements can help the couple become aware of the challenges ahead and help them be more confident in the relationship. This, and marital charters, seem to prepare a couple for stability. I think the rising of agreements and divorces go hand in hand because people see that there are more divorces so more people want to be careful with their interests. I'd also say that the negative perception of prenups is largely because it has to do with divorce, which is a negative thing. It's like how a big reason marriage counselors are rated lower than other counselors is because often times, couples realize some hard-to-hear things about their relationship.

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